i know it's not much and it's not my favorite but i changed my blog. i was informed by sarah that the old blogger was the reason why people would loose all of their stuff from time to time. so, now i see how EASY it really is to change backgrounds. when i find one i really love you'll know cause i'll stop changing it.
wendy, thank you for offering to help and sorry i never got back to you but i would LOVE to know where you get your backgrounds cause the one you have now is totally ME. :)